This is Charlie. You wouldn't look at him and think "Wow he is massive!" But he was. He is our second and he was born naturally, with no drugs, me standing and squatting at 10.10lbs. I couldn't believe it, daddy couldn't believe it and the midwife could not believe it. I was induced with Charlie as he just wasn't budging and I was okay with it. When labour finally started it only took four hours. I started out on the ward then suddenly the surges hit me like BAM. Out of nowhere and a midwife ran in and said "Do you need gas and air love" to which I replied " YES HURRY". You see I love gas and air I will not hide that fact! It has got me through both my labours so it is my dream pain reliever.
Once I was in established labour I couldn't think properly and my husband couldn't find the Wise Hippo MP3's on my phone of course. But then Tamara, my doula, turned up and the music came on. I can not describe how different the room looked. I went quiet, I started swaying and I needed my husband to hold me even just a gentle touch with his hand the entire time. The minute he let go I felt pain flood through me. How incredible! I still look back on it and can't quite understand how this hypnobirthing malarky works but it is THE single handedly best thing I ever did before the birth of my boys.
So why a relax, breathe and birth session?
If you are unsure about doing the whole course, maybe lack the funds, lack the time or just want to have some ME time that you deserve this is the class for you. I did the full hypnobirthing courses with my births as it was right for me (much to the dismay of my hubby) but if I have another I might only do this one off class so I can refocus my mind about how natural, positive and beautiful birth is and can be. You get to fully focus on you and baby for two and a half hours where we will talk about fear release, birthing your baby and birth planning, relaxation and breathing tools for birth and for life and of course do some wonderful scripts followed by obligatory tea and cake.
Remember it is about the right birth on the day not about having the picture perfect water birth walk straight out and home type of birth we fantasise about. It is about feeling empowered, listened to and positive about how your birth turns out.
I had the right births for me...so can you x