This is our youngest boy Charlie. He has had a really harsh winter and now spring of constant illnesses but this is what happens when you have a brother who is at preschool. I feel for him as he had surgery in November 2017 which knocked his immune system for a few months and he has been plagued with some sort of virus ever since.
I would say the hardest thing about being a parent is when your kids are sick. It stops you in your tracks, your heart becomes flooded with emotions, they rely on you completely for the next 48 hours at least and you have to somehow manage to carry on with everything in life whilst having a little person attached to you. Don't even get me started on when both children are sick! That is just a ship yourself off to grandparents if you can day.
But one thing I do realise when my boys are ill is that they are such troopers. We as adults tend to complain and roll into bed for a few days and feel the world has ended. But kids are so resilient. They still want to explore and play. They still want to giggle. They still want to live life. They may have fevers which means TV bound but once they come out of it they suddenly grab that scuttlebug and zoom around the house until they bring on another fever. Their little bodies still somehow manage to keep the fun going. It doesn't just stop, which I absolutely adore.
So I am taking a page out of their books this week and I have been trying to bring the fun back into life. I work really hard as that's what I love to do. Without it I would be very lost I realised quite recently. I listened to Fearne Cotton's podcast with Gok Wan recently and I completely resonated with it. They work hard because it is their life. They love it, they want to immerse themselves in it and it keeps them sane. Bang on! For me it can consume me and it has been so I am taking that fun page and I have started taking snippets where I just relax, laugh and enjoy life. Because that's what life is about. Why live and not enjoy?
Looking through the eyes of a child can be so healing and reflective x